September 26, 2027 10am-5pm‍ ‍

Grief and Gratitude 2027

200 Britton Drive ,Chapel Hill, NC 27516

Join meditation teacher Joanna John for the third annual Grief and Gratitude Meditation Retreat.

  • "Being a part of the Grief & Gratitude retreat was a perfect gift to myself after a difficult year. Joanna's gift of bringing people together in community to dive deeper into matters of the soul was such a blessing to me both personally and professionally. Her attention to detail and gentle spirit made me feel so welcome and more connected to the community around me. If you can, I highly recommend getting to one of her retreats and/or her beautiful mindfulness offerings. The sense of present awareness and belonging I felt during the day still sits in my heart as we all continue to navigate life."

    -Melanie Downs, LCMHC

  • “Joanna’s grief and gratitude retreat held that tender and tricky place of naming hard truths and creating space for pain and sadness to come forward, while also leaving me lighter and freer than when I walked in. The silence and spaciousness was exactly what I needed.”

    -Amanda Diekman, author of Low Demand Parenting

  • “It is such an honor to call Joanna a friend. I turn to her practical, grounded, luminous wisdom again and again to discern a practice of meditation and living that is … *real*, far beyond the trite soundbites. Whether she is talking about parenting or moving through grief, postures of meditation or simply having a heart that is being constantly broken in today’s world, her embodied light inspires me and so many.”

    -Omid Safi, Teacher in the Sufi tradition of Radical Love & Founder of Illuminated Courses and Tours

  • "Joanna’s approach to meditation is accessible and realistic. Her retreats offer an incredible opportunity for busy people to drop everything and simply be still. They are a well deserved and much needed respite for any human living in day to day chaos. Joanna is a local treasure and the spaces she creates in her retreats are so so special."

  • "I recently attended Joanna John’s Grief & Gratitude Retreat, and it was truly a beautiful experience. The day flowed with such intention and care. From guided meditations to trauma-informed yoga; from the physical space she cultivated for us at the studio, to the heart space opened during both individual & meaningful group reflection—it was all deeply therapeutic. Joanna has a rare gift for holding space with gentleness, wisdom, and a warm grounding presence. I’m so grateful for the work she’s doing and for the opportunity to attend this retreat! I would wholeheartedly recommend it to anyone navigating the storms of life, or to anyone seeking connection, clarity, or renewal."

    Kate Benner, Durham, NC

  • "The Grief & Gratitude retreat was a truly special experience. Like so many of us, Ive been carrying around unprocessed grief from the past few years (both personal and due to the state of the world) and Joanna created a space where I could safely experience those intense feelings. I especially appreciated that there was no pressure or expectation to act a certain way. At one point I felt very overwhelmed and I felt safe sitting with it and not participating in the activity happening at that time. As a late diagnosed autistic woman who often feels intense social anxiety, as well as a people pleasing/masking impulse this was invaluable. I’m so grateful for this experience."

  • "I really enjoyed the grief retreat! I didn’t realize how much I needed space to process my grief. The meditations brought me to some very powerful conclusions and helped bring closure for me. The trauma-informed yoga practice was so unique and comforting, like nothing I’ve experienced. Overall I’m so glad I was able to attend. Having intentional time to cry and process, without judgment, was very healing."

  • "I am so grateful to Joanna for creating a safe space to explore our grief, cultivate gratitude, and connect with others. This retreat reminded me of the importance of showing up for others, even if all you do is physically "show up" - not trying to fix or help. Just being there. Joanna continued to be there for all of us throughout this retreat and I am truly thankful. I walked away with a deeper understanding of myself, the grief I carry and the grief of impermanence that we all carry, the love and gratitude that can come from that, and a deep sense of peace"

  • "Joanna holds such a safe and healing space. The retreat was truly a gift! I reached a new and welcome relationship with gratitude around a grief I have carried for many years. I will certainly attend future retreats with Joanna! She's a treasure."

The autumn equinox is an auspicious time to gather to reflect on how we relate to grief as an essential part of the human experience.

Grieving is considered a sacred and communal process, and what grief asks of us is too profound to do alone. By coming together as a community, and naming universal forms of grief, we are better able to access our own grief and come to see that our sorrow, while unique in some way, is not a solitary experience — it is The Grief. It is what it is to be a human. This retreat is a step toward reclaiming the sacred act of grieving.

Through mindfulness meditation, ritual, and community, participants will be offered an anchor, and a return to the perspective of our core self, as we navigate the joys and sorrows of this miraculous life. As a sangha, we just might come to find that our ability to grieve is directly connected to our capacity to love. Grief and gratitude are not opposites, but deeply intertwined.

This retreat will be guided by the Insight Meditation tradition and will include.

  • Guided meditations

  • Rituals

  • Signature herbal tea

  • Movement practice

  • A catered lunch

  • Small and large group discussions

  • Periods of time for painting, journaling, or walking meditation

*To honor and preserve the introspective nature of this day, the majority of the retreat will be held in silence, with intentional openings for small and large group sharing.

**This retreat will be capped at 22 participants..

***This is a mindfulness meditation retreat designed to support grief, rather than a traditional grief retreat.

****This event, and all of Joanna’s offerings, are inclusive and affirming of people of all gender identities and expressions, sexual orientations, races, ethnicities, cultures, religions, abilities, and backgrounds. As a sangha, we seek to recognize and name the impacts of racism, xenophobia, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, and other forms of oppression, and to engage in the ongoing practice of antiracism, compassion, understanding, and repair.

Tentative Retreat Flow

10:00–11:15— Welcome, logistics, grounding meditation, check-in

11:15-11:50— Dharma Talk/Grief Framework and Grief Ritual

11:50-12:05— Break

12:05-12:35— Guided Meditation

12:35-12:45 – Question + Response

12:45-2:15— Catered Lunch + Rest (art, journal prompts, walking meditation, independent time)

2:15-2:45— Guided Meditation

2:45-3:15 — Discussion

3:15-3:30 — Break

3:30-4:30 —Yoga/Movement

4:30–5:00 — Closing activities

Your Guide

Joanna John (she/her), Durham, NC

Joanna completed mindfulness meditation teacher training in 2023 through the Mindfulness Meditation Teacher Certification Program (MMTCP), a two-year training founded by Jack Kornfield and Tara Brach. She then pursued an additional year of study with Stan Eisenstein and Cynthia Wilcox, PhD, in Guided Embodied Inquiry for Individuals (GEII).

GEII is a one-on-one modality that supports psychological and spiritual healing through mindfulness meditation, drawing on complementary frameworks including Internal Family Systems, Buddhist philosophy, spiritual reparenting, and somatic approaches to emotional processing.

Joanna continues her study of GEII with Stan and a dedicated community of meditation teachers.

Joanna facilitates seasonal meditation retreats in the Triangle area and leads ongoing cyclical sanghas (meditation communities in the Buddhist tradition). As both a teacher and fellow practitioner, she is committed to her own continued growth and engages in ongoing professional development and personal practice. She regularly makes space for contemplative practice and writing, which are central to her life and work. Joanna practices engaged spirituality, a term inspired by Thich Nhat Hanh, which refers to the active engagement of the heart and mindful awareness in service of the greater collective good.

Joanna is from Durham, North Carolina, where she currently lives with her husband, two sons, and their black lab mix, Tallulah. Outside of her teaching work, she is a mother. Motherhood deeply informs and challenges her understanding of care, attunement, and compassionate presence.

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“My grief and my gratitude, my impermanence and my timelessness, dance side by side like good friends who would be incomplete without the other. They create the raw and miraculous truth of what it means to be a human.” - Joanna John

Register for the 2027 Grief and Gratitude Meditation Retreat